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Then follow this 3 word Rx: “Run like hell!”
4. Then make a list of positive characteristics in someone with whom you’d like to be in a relationship. This can be an ongoing and growing list that will guide you in re-setting your radar, and then in making a better choice.
5. Finally, here’s a quick self-esteem raising exercise. Rate your self-esteem on a scale of 1 to 10, (with 1 the worst and 10 the best) in the following four areas:
where it is now
the worst it’s ever been
the best it’s ever been
how you would like it to be
Now it’s time for some higher math: take the number of where you would like your self-esteem to be (let’s sa
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Here’s some good news
I see lots and lots of women and men with this kind of pattern
There’s even a name for it, and
Most importantly, there are specific strategies to quickly and successfully change the pattern.
Think back to the last time you watched The Weather Channel or the local weather on the news. Remember how the radar was able to pick up the storms and lock onto them? Well, each of us has an internal radar that picks up and locks in on certain kinds of people.
I call this process our “relationship radar.” If we are lucky, and/or if we have worked at it, our radar picks out people who are potentially good for us, and things work out.
Unfortunately some folks have faulty relationship radar that predictably chooses people who will eventually cause them pain. Here’s what I mean: if your daughter were to go to a party with 100 guys and there were two of them that were her “type”, her faulty relationship radar would pick them out in about five minutes tops. She would even find the other good guys “boring” or just “too nice.”
Now let’s look at how faulty relationship radar gets set and then more importantly, how to change it.
How Relationship Radar Gets Set1. The model for relationships we saw in our parents
2. Our self-estee
Our relationship experience and history
If you’ll notice, two of these factors, the model we had and our relationship experience are things in the past that we cannot change. That’s the bad news. The good news is that 1) we can be aware of and begin to change past patterns, and 2) we can rather quickly and effectively change our self-esteem.
How to Correct Your Relationship Radar
Here are five key strategies for correcting, or re-setting, your relationship radar:
1. As you think back on the parental model you had for relationships, make two lists:
the first is a list of characteristics from your parents relationship that you would like to keep
the second is a list of characteristics that you would like to discard and leave behind. Then get to work on eliminating the negative characteristics from your life.
2. Pay attention to your relationship history and patterns. Do you find yourself attracted to the same kind of person who winds up hurting you? Do your relationships follow a similar pattern and end in the same way? Do you find yourself getting hurt in the same way over and over? These are signs that reveal that your relationship radar needs some radical readjusting.
3. Based on the exercise above, make a list of danger signals to watch for in people you are getting to know. As one client of mine put it: “I keep picking scum, so I’m going to call my list “Scum Signals.” If you start picking up these familiar signals, an alarm should go off in your brain, sort of like the robot on “Lost in Space”: “warning! warning! - danger Will Robinson.”
Then follow this 3 word Rx: “Run like hell!”
4. Then make a list of positive characteristics in someone with whom you’d like to be in a relationship. This can be an ongoing and growing list that will guide you in re-setting your radar, and then in making a better choice.
5. Finally, here’s a quick self-esteem raising exercise. Rate your self-esteem on a scale of 1 to 10, (with 1 the worst and 10 the best) in the following four areas:
where it is now
the worst it’s ever been
the best it’s ever been
how you would like it to be
Now it’s time for some higher math: take the number of where you would like your self-esteem to be (let’s say
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I call this process our “relationship radar.” If we are lucky, and/or if we have worked at it, our radar picks out people who are potentially good for us, and things work out.
Unfortunately some folks have faulty relationship radar that predictably chooses people who will eventually cause them pain. Here’s what I mean: if your daughter were to go to a party with 100 guys and there were two of them that were her “type”, her faulty relationship radar would pick them out in about five minutes tops. She would even find the other good guys “boring” or just “too nice.”
Now let’s look at how faulty relationship radar gets set and then more importantly, how to change it.
How Relationship Radar Gets Set1. The model for relationships we saw in our parents
2. Our self-estee
Our relationship experience and history
If you’ll notice, two of these factors, the model we had and our relationship experience are things in the past that we cannot change. That’s the bad news. The good news is that 1) we can be aware of and begin to change past patterns, and 2) we can rather quickly and effectively change our self-esteem.
How to Correct Your Relationship Radar
Here are five key strategies for correcting, or re-setting, your relationship radar:
1. As you think back on the parental model you had for relationships, make two lists:
the first is a list of characteristics from your parents relationship that you would like to keep
the second is a list of characteristics that you would like to discard and leave behind. Then get to work on eliminating the negative characteristics from your life.
2. Pay attention to your relationship history and patterns. Do you find yourself attracted to the same kind of person who winds up hurting you? Do your relationships follow a similar pattern and end in the same way? Do you find yourself getting hurt in the same way over and over? These are signs that reveal that your relationship radar needs some radical readjusting.
3. Based on the exercise above, make a list of danger signals to watch for in people you are getting to know. As one client of mine put it: “I keep picking scum, so I’m going to call my list “Scum Signals.” If you start picking up these familiar signals, an alarm should go off in your brain, sort of like the robot on “Lost in Space”: “warning! warning! - danger Will Robinson.”
Then follow this 3 word Rx: “Run like hell!”
4. Then make a list of positive characteristics in someone with whom you’d like to be in a relationship. This can be an ongoing and growing list that will guide you in re-setting your radar, and then in making a better choice.
5. Finally, here’s a quick self-esteem raising exercise. Rate your self-esteem on a scale of 1 to 10, (with 1 the worst and 10 the best) in the following four areas:
where it is now
the worst it’s ever been
the best it’s ever been
how you would like it to be
Now it’s time for some higher math: take the number of where you would like your self-esteem to be (let’s sa
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How Relationship Radar Gets Set1. The model for relationships we saw in our parents
2. Our self-estee
Our relationship experience and history
If you’ll notice, two of these factors, the model we had and our relationship experience are things in the past that we cannot change. That’s the bad news. The good news is that 1) we can be aware of and begin to change past patterns, and 2) we can rather quickly and effectively change our self-esteem.
How to Correct Your Relationship Radar
Here are five key strategies for correcting, or re-setting, your relationship radar:
1. As you think back on the parental model you had for relationships, make two lists:
the first is a list of characteristics from your parents relationship that you would like to keep
the second is a list of characteristics that you would like to discard and leave behind. Then get to work on eliminating the negative characteristics from your life.
2. Pay attention to your relationship history and patterns. Do you find yourself attracted to the same kind of person who winds up hurting you? Do your relationships follow a similar pattern and end in the same way? Do you find yourself getting hurt in the same way over and over? These are signs that reveal that your relationship radar needs some radical readjusting.
3. Based on the exercise above, make a list of danger signals to watch for in people you are getting to know. As one client of mine put it: “I keep picking scum, so I’m going to call my list “Scum Signals.” If you start picking up these familiar signals, an alarm should go off in your brain, sort of like the robot on “Lost in Space”: “warning! warning! - danger Will Robinson.”
Then follow this 3 word Rx: “Run like hell!”
4. Then make a list of positive characteristics in someone with whom you’d like to be in a relationship. This can be an ongoing and growing list that will guide you in re-setting your radar, and then in making a better choice.
5. Finally, here’s a quick self-esteem raising exercise. Rate your self-esteem on a scale of 1 to 10, (with 1 the worst and 10 the best) in the following four areas:
where it is now
the worst it’s ever been
the best it’s ever been
how you would like it to be
Now it’s time for some higher math: take the number of where you would like your self-esteem to be (let’s sa
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the second is a list of characteristics that you would like to discard and leave behind. Then get to work on eliminating the negative characteristics from your life.
2. Pay attention to your relationship history and patterns. Do you find yourself attracted to the same kind of person who winds up hurting you? Do your relationships follow a similar pattern and end in the same way? Do you find yourself getting hurt in the same way over and over? These are signs that reveal that your relationship radar needs some radical readjusting.
3. Based on the exercise above, make a list of danger signals to watch for in people you are getting to know. As one client of mine put it: “I keep picking scum, so I’m going to call my list “Scum Signals.” If you start picking up these familiar signals, an alarm should go off in your brain, sort of like the robot on “Lost in Space”: “warning! warning! - danger Will Robinson.”
Then follow this 3 word Rx: “Run like hell!”
4. Then make a list of positive characteristics in someone with whom you’d like to be in a relationship. This can be an ongoing and growing list that will guide you in re-setting your radar, and then in making a better choice.
5. Finally, here’s a quick self-esteem raising exercise. Rate your self-esteem on a scale of 1 to 10, (with 1 the worst and 10 the best) in the following four areas:
where it is now
the worst it’s ever been
the best it’s ever been
how you would like it to be
Now it’s time for some higher math: take the number of where you would like your self-esteem to be (let’s sa
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Then follow this 3 word Rx: “Run like hell!”
4. Then make a list of positive characteristics in someone with whom you’d like to be in a relationship. This can be an ongoing and growing list that will guide you in re-setting your radar, and then in making a better choice.
5. Finally, here’s a quick self-esteem raising exercise. Rate your self-esteem on a scale of 1 to 10, (with 1 the worst and 10 the best) in the following four areas:
where it is now
the worst it’s ever been
the best it’s ever been
how you would like it to be
Now it’s time for some higher math: take the number of where you would like your self-esteem to be (let’s say 10) and subtract the number of where it is now (3 for example). Where I went to school, ten minus three is seven. (I’m such a show-off!) This means you have 7 levels of self-esteem to reach your goal. While that’s too big a chunk to handle all at once, you can break it down into manageable pieces by asking this question: “What will it take for me to go from a 3 to a 4, then a 4 to a 5, and so on?”
Follow this path, and watch your self-esteem grow, and your relationship radar change.
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