a person's word but to the feeling which lie beneath those words. Try to know the obstacles to listening in your own relationship and start taking practical steps to overcome them.

The final rule in good communication is :Understanding.
Les's consider that all behavior is caused , there are reason why we behave in that way , the reason may be hidden at first but with a little effort they can be pinpoint , you have to know your partner's background , environment witch

One of the greatest obstacles to a successful marriage is an inability to communicate the communication in marriage consists of three simple and powerful rules : talking , listening and understanding if you learn and apply these rules in your marriage you will have a very successful and happy marriage . TALKING:

its the first principle in good communication talking is not just the opposite of silence , and talking for the sake of talking is not good communication but talking with point and purpose is an essential ingredient of effect communication when you speak honestly with your partner ( wife / husband ) it makes him / her feel that you worth something to him / her , when my husband share me his feelings , talk about work …I feel that I am so important to him and he loves me , I mean something to him and he want to take my opinion he makes me so happy . BUT when you decide to talk with your partner you need to be open and honest in all things not to lie or hide your real feelings.

Remember talking is not a list of some questions like :
How are you
What you do today
What did you buy
Talking is to discuss , share your partner an issue , take an important decision together and you must choose the right time to start a conversation do not start a serious conversation when your partner is tired , angry , not ready to talk.

Second Principle:Listening.

Most people prefer to be takers rather than listeners , listening means making an effort to concentrate on what a person is saying but most of us have a poor listening that means : You think about what you are going to say once the other person has stopped talking . Someone else jumping in before the other person has finished their part of the conversation . Someone else focus on his feelings not listening to what he other one saying . In order to become a good listener you must learn not simply to listen to a person's word but to the feeling which lie beneath those words. Try to know the obstacles to listening in your own relationship and start taking practical steps to overcome them.

The final rule in good communication is :Understanding.
Les's consider that all behavior is caused , there are reason why we behave in that way , the reason may be hidden at first but with a little effort they can be pinpoint , you have to know your partner's background , environment witch

ing with point and purpose is an essential ingredient of effect communication when you speak honestly with your partner ( wife / husband ) it makes him / her feel that you worth something to him / her , when my husband share me his feelings , talk about work …I feel that I am so important to him and he loves me , I mean something to him and he want to take my opinion he makes me so happy . BUT when you decide to talk with your partner you need to be open and honest in all things not to lie or hide your real feelings.

Remember talking is not a list of some questions like :
How are you
What you do today
What did you buy
Talking is to discuss , share your partner an issue , take an important decision together and you must choose the right time to start a conversation do not start a serious conversation when your partner is tired , angry , not ready to talk.

Second Principle:Listening.

Most people prefer to be takers rather than listeners , listening means making an effort to concentrate on what a person is saying but most of us have a poor listening that means : You think about what you are going to say once the other person has stopped talking . Someone else jumping in before the other person has finished their part of the conversation . Someone else focus on his feelings not listening to what he other one saying . In order to become a good listener you must learn not simply to listen to a person's word but to the feeling which lie beneath those words. Try to know the obstacles to listening in your own relationship and start taking practical steps to overcome them.

The final rule in good communication is :Understanding.
Les's consider that all behavior is caused , there are reason why we behave in that way , the reason may be hidden at first but with a little effort they can be pinpoint , you have to know your partner's background , environment witch

not to lie or hide your real feelings.

Remember talking is not a list of some questions like :
How are you
What you do today
What did you buy
Talking is to discuss , share your partner an issue , take an important decision together and you must choose the right time to start a conversation do not start a serious conversation when your partner is tired , angry , not ready to talk.

Second Principle:Listening.

Most people prefer to be takers rather than listeners , listening means making an effort to concentrate on what a person is saying but most of us have a poor listening that means : You think about what you are going to say once the other person has stopped talking . Someone else jumping in before the other person has finished their part of the conversation . Someone else focus on his feelings not listening to what he other one saying . In order to become a good listener you must learn not simply to listen to a person's word but to the feeling which lie beneath those words. Try to know the obstacles to listening in your own relationship and start taking practical steps to overcome them.

The final rule in good communication is :Understanding.
Les's consider that all behavior is caused , there are reason why we behave in that way , the reason may be hidden at first but with a little effort they can be pinpoint , you have to know your partner's background , environment witch

ther than listeners , listening means making an effort to concentrate on what a person is saying but most of us have a poor listening that means : You think about what you are going to say once the other person has stopped talking . Someone else jumping in before the other person has finished their part of the conversation . Someone else focus on his feelings not listening to what he other one saying . In order to become a good listener you must learn not simply to listen to a person's word but to the feeling which lie beneath those words. Try to know the obstacles to listening in your own relationship and start taking practical steps to overcome them.

The final rule in good communication is :Understanding.
Les's consider that all behavior is caused , there are reason why we behave in that way , the reason may be hidden at first but with a little effort they can be pinpoint , you have to know your partner's background , environment witch

a person's word but to the feeling which lie beneath those words. Try to know the obstacles to listening in your own relationship and start taking practical steps to overcome them.

The final rule in good communication is :Understanding.
Les's consider that all behavior is caused , there are reason why we behave in that way , the reason may be hidden at first but with a little effort they can be pinpoint , you have to know your partner's background , environment witch he grown in because it's effect in his / her present . Finally work together with one heart , one mind do not be selfish do not live to make a good impression on others , think of your partner as better than yourself. If you pay attention to these three components of good communication you will be on the way establishing a communication system that can transform your marriage.